The Shame Game Has No Winners

I Hate it when _____ does _____. It’s So _____.
Do your conversations sound like this?

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When you are judging, shaming, blaming, and condemning you are filling out a Universal Order Form asking for more of the same.
The good news is…  You can turn it around.

If you don’t like what your friends are posting, maybe you need some new friends or unfollow some old ones. You have the power to do that.

If their religion, politics, or marketing strategies are not to your liking, you are so powerful that you can unfriend them, hide them from your newsfeed, or if they really offend you, FB has made it possible for you to block them all together.
(you have so many solution options!)

OR you can just continue to gossip about them, shaming them with your opinions of how ineffective their tactics are and lower your own vibration in the process.
( you are so powerful you get to choose!)

We all do things differently, we all see things from our own unique perspective and making other people feel bad about themselves isn’t the way I roll.

So, with that said, if I offend you by being who I am, I offer you some of the suggestions above, and we can part ways in peace.

The thing is, what we each have to offer in the world isn’t for everybody.
Some people are going to get you, and some people aren’t, and it’s OKAY.

At the end of the day, the only opinion of you that matters, is the one you have of yourself. Keep shining your beautiful light in the world, however that works for you. Just be you in the process.

  • If you’re an entrepreneur, don’t let others shame you into not marketing your services. Don’t dim your light for anyone. Ever.
  • The world needs you, and there is someone out there looking for exactly what you have to offer, praying to come across a post just like yours!
Keep Being You.
– Stephanie
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